Ever wanted to ask a girl out on a date but haven’t had the courage to do it?
Sometimes you will meet in not the most convenient of situations, but if you ant to go out and get to know her, you'll have to be resourceful to make it work and get those digits.
The faster you can determine the type of girl she is, the easier you can figure out how to ask her out.
There are many different styles when it comes to picking up girls, but things change when you're trying for something meaningful. Decide what you want and go from there. If you are unsure, you might come off as a player and turn her off. Every person is different so be intruiged to find out what she's all about, this'll give you the courage to step to her.
Girls enjoy confidence so all you have to do is to keep putting the ball in her court and let her respond, after some back and forth, ask her for a date or to accompany you to an event you'll be going to. Figure out what vibes you get, improvise and make an impression.
Step by Step
Make a good impression. Be friendly and loose, make sure the ball is in her court most of the time so you also give her a chance to feel she needs to impress you. Compliment her but don’t go too far.
Have a nice Conversation. Build some re-pour between you and her and try to have a conversation.
Avoid touching heavy subjects, don’t do all the talking, give her a chance to respond, if she’s glancing around and doesn’t seem interested be honest, let her know if she has something on her mind right now, it’ll be cool if you guys get another chance to meet up.
Invite her to a friendly gathering or a group event so it’s not as intense, you can give her some time to think about you and the upcoming ‘thing’. This would be a good time to ask for a name and number so you can keep in touch and tell her where the event is and such.
Develop your relationship. If she doesn’t take to you at first, you can be friendly with her and win her over later as your relationship develops. Keep a playful flirtatious tension so she doesn’t see you just as a friend. Once you know her likes and dislikes, you can purchase two tickets to that thing she likes and invite her.
Ask her to be your date. Say you have an extra ticket and would love to go with her. If you don’t have enough money for this then a trip to the movies is another good option. You can say: ‘Hey you know (fill in the blank) is coming out this friday’ wait for her response then look into her eyes and say clearly: ‘wanna go?’ (she might interpret it as ‘are you going?’). Encourage her to hang out with you and find out how great you are.
Improve your Flirting. Enhance your flirting skills by teasing her a bit, joking around, playing flirty games like spin the bottle and daring her to kiss you if she doesn’t comply with the rules of the game. Have some cool funny stories from your past, so you can make her laugh and give her the trust to reveal her own stories to you, keep in mind the compliments so you don’t slip into the ‘friend zone’.
Look for the Signs. There are tell tell signs a girl is interested in you, if she:
•Tries to keep the conversation going, and plays with her hair allot while looking at you.
•Touches you often (it often helps to give her an excuse by wearing a cool chain or wrist band).
•Asks about your interests or what you’re doing during the week. If she asks if you’d like to go to an event or party with her friends etc then you don’t have to do much, you’ve already won her over, just say yes and grab the place and time and give her your phone so she can put her number in it to contact you if it gets cancelled or something (wink).
Get the digits. If you have to make the move, when the time is right, ask her to come along with whatever you’re doing and get her number..
Tips
Don’t hype things up, don’t put her on a pedestal. Just be friendly and casual and she can probably read between the lines that you wouldn’t mind inviting a pretty girl to that thing you like and that she might like.
If she doesn’t take to you, stay cool and move on, she just doesn’t realize the awesomeness that is in front of her. Girls are human to and they make mistakes, you can forgive her for passing you up.
If you come with the foresight that she’ll already be there with you, all you have to do is be flirtatious, friendly and fun, it helps if you freshen up and look ‘fly’ too, even if you’re already good looking, a girl likes a good smell of perfume.
Once you picture her going with you, it will come off as confidence and it’ll make it easy for her to say yes. When she looks into your eyes she should realize where her great world ends and where your awesome world begins. Invite her in.