How To Hug
Oct. 27th 2011

Hugging can seem simple enough but a good hug takes confidence, vulnerability and a good energy about you.

It also involves smelling nice, not being scared to give someone some love and being cool with physical contact.

If you’re the type that doesn’t shake hands, hugging is probably not for you, but neither is sex. Human contact is the way we procreate so unless you’re planning on going through life without touching anyone, use these tips to become the best hugger alive.

Hug Guide:
Partner/Spouse: Tight Hug
Friends: Tight Hug
Friends of Friends: Tight Hug
Strangers: Tight Hug


Give a REAL hug. A hug does not involve touching of shoulders or of necks. A real hug is given with open arms, wrapping both arms around the person, with both belly buttons touching.


Don’t give half hearted hugs. There is nothing worse than a half hearted hug, it leaves you empty and craving something unfinished. Love is like a water fall, it doesn’t dry up, it flows profusely from the depths of your soul, so don’t be afraid to be generous, there will always be some for later.


Be comfortable in your own skin. Girls, there is no harm in squishing your chest against someone else’s; it’s a wonderful way to break the ice and make anyone like you instantly. Anyone with half a brain knows not to squeeze too tight so don’t be afraid to give a real hug.


Be brave, be manly. Guys, the manliest hug you can give is the cross armed hug. A few light, taps on the back to further comfort the person you’re hugging, should do it.


Don’t patronize. Never tap someone’s back unless it’s to bring them closer, you’re not burping a baby! There’s nothing worse than hugging someone who instantly feels you want them off you. If it’s not going to be a long heart felt hug, don’t offer to give one in the first place.


Be sensitive. Girls find some sensitivities in guys attractive; Extremes are very similar, there is manliness in femininity, and there is femininity in manliness, so don’t miss out on an experience because of your wrong preconceptions. Hugging is for guys too, especially if you’re hugging a girl.


Always accept hugs. Never reject an offer for a hug unless it’s from someone with a terrible contagious disease, in other words to avoid death or illness. Rejecting a hug can be worse than rejecting a hand shake, it’s a way of coming closer to that person or just sharing your bodily warmth.



  Tips



Love the Hug-fest. It is true that the best things in life are free, there is nothing wrong with two grown people hugging, it’s an act of love and friendliness.


There's never a downside. Hugging can lead to dry humping for those who are looking to explore other ways to enjoy someone else’s company.


Re-write the unwritten rules. Hugging is a great way for two friends to fall asleep while watching a movie or listening to music. Things don’t have to get weird, hugging should be in the realm of friendly activity, as long as the parties involved understand each other, there shouldn’t be a problem.


Be true to yourself. Know what YOU want. Sit for a few minutes and think about what it is you want. Forget the people who are telling you how to lead your life. What makes you happy? If you love hugging and the people around you see it as excessive, don’t mind them, unless you’re hurting someone there’s NOTHING wrong with giving out love.


Wait for it, wait for it...and release. A great hug between friends can last around 3-5 seconds including the Mississippi's, if you get a hug from someone who doesn’t want to let go, give them your time, they will appreciate it. Spend a little more time cuddling them.


It’s good for your health. A hug is a great stress reliever and releases all the good chemicals in your body, so get all the goodness you can out of them.




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