Want to ask a girl to the home coming but don’t know how to go about it? Asking someone out doesn't have to be a big deal if you know what to do.
Looking for the right opportunity to ask is the key to getting a 'yes'. Visualising her with you at the dance before you ask, gives off a vibe of confidence and this is attractive.
It's harder for her to say no if you're charming and give out the message that you also have options, but you would love for her to be your date for the dance.
It also helps if you're good looking, but if you're not a charmer, nothing can replace a dull personality, arrogance or cockiness. Even if you consider yourself average looking, you can make up for it with humour.
Make the girl laugh and show her a good time, depending on the girl, she'll prefer a night of laughter than a night of uncomfort with a good looking guy.
If you're not that great looking or even funny, being a great dancer will send her into an addictive rage for you. If you do well on the dance floor it's a great way to get her to take more notice, ofcourse she won't see this until the date so slip in a remark about your dancing into the conversation, to convince her to go with you.
Step by Step
Get to know your girl. Learn what she likes and doesn’t like and become friends and flirt to let her know you just don’t want to be friends. You can use a social network site to chat but you can make a better connection if you’re looking at each other face to face.
Know what kind of things she likes, so when you are at the dance, you know how to communicate with her.
Be flirtatious and upgrade your daily hello’s to daily hugs or kisses on the cheek. A bit of physical contact can be nice at times and smelling good also helps.
Be sure she isn’t busy on that day. Maybe ask her friends, ‘do you know if she’s doing anything’. Develop your own way of asking and know without looking stalkish.
Be casual. As the initiator (you) it's on her to accept or reject the offer, consider yourself braver and it'll exude confidence.
When it comes to asking her, picture you at the dance with her, and ask casually if she’d go with you. Depending on the conversation, ask her but don’t blurt it out or look desperate, just say something like ‘it would be awesome if you went with me’ or if you’re talking about homecoming ask ‘hey, do you wanna go with me?’.
Tips
Tell her how you feel about her, and she’ll probably want to go with you even more. There’s nothing greater than to hang out with someone who really likes you, this will flatter her.
Don’t be afraid to be honest, you’ll be braver for it and she’ll prefer someone honest to be with her.
There are different ways of asking her, through a poem or a simple little note or you can go big and write it
on a big banner, whatever suits your taste.
Be smooth and act quickly because someone else could ask her.
Become someone to admire, be on a sports team or something similar so she notices you, so all you have to do is ask and she’ll be ready to say yes.
You can just go as friends if you want and then progress from there after having a romantic dance with her.